Omliva organizes practical information. This guide is general information for the United States, not legal, tax, financial or medical advice.
A short note before you start
This checklist explains how estate settlement usually works in the United States. It is general information, not legal, tax or financial advice. Probate rules, forms and deadlines are set by each state, so treat the timelines here as a guide and confirm the specifics with your state court's self-help site or a probate attorney.
What an executor is, and is not
An executor (called a "personal representative" in many states, or an "administrator" when there is no will) is the person legally responsible for wrapping up a deceased person's affairs. Nolo sums up the job as protecting the property, winding up the finances, and handing out inheritances (Nolo, What Does an Executor of a Will Do?, checked 2026-09-17).
Nominated is not the same as appointed
Being named in a will only nominates you. You become the executor when the probate court confirms you and issues letters testamentary (or letters of administration if there is no will). The IRS instructions for Form 56 say an executor should attach "current letters testamentary or a court certificate as proof of your court appointment" (IRS, checked 2026-09-17). Banks, brokerages and the post office ask for the same proof. Until you have it, you can protect property, but you cannot sell it, move money or sign for the estate.
Incapacity is not death
If a parent is alive but unable to manage money, the executor role does not exist yet. The person who acts is the agent under a durable power of attorney, or a court-appointed guardian or conservator. The reverse is also true: the CFPB's guide for agents says an agent's authority "ends when the principal dies," and the agent should tell the bank and stop paying bills, even if they still can (CFPB, checked 2026-09-17). From then on, only the estate's personal representative can act.
First 48 hours
The first two days are about people and safety, not paperwork.
- Confirm that the death has been legally pronounced and that a funeral home or the family has arranged to take the body. A hospital, nursing facility or hospice nurse handles this in a facility (National Institute on Aging, checked 2026-09-17).
- Find any letter of instruction or prepaid funeral plan before the family makes arrangements.
- Ask the funeral home to order certified death certificates. AARP suggests getting "up to 10 or more copies" because most institutions keep the copy you send them (AARP, checked 2026-09-17).
- Give the funeral director the person's Social Security number so they can report the death to the Social Security Administration (USA.gov, checked 2026-09-17).
- Secure the home and vehicles: lock up, collect valuables, remove perishable food, arrange care for pets.
- Do not move money, sell anything or throw out papers. You are not appointed yet.
First two weeks
- Locate the original will and any trust documents. Check the home office, a safe, the attorney who drafted it, and the county court (some states allow wills to be deposited there).
- Read the will. Note who is nominated as executor, who the beneficiaries are, and any instructions about the funeral or specific gifts.
- Find the probate court for the county where the person lived. Search "[your state] courts self-help probate" for the forms and filing rules.
- File the will and petition for appointment. Some states let small estates skip formal probate with an affidavit or a simplified process; the dollar limits vary widely by state (Nolo, Probate Shortcuts, checked 2026-09-17).
- Once appointed, get certified copies of your letters. You will hand them out often.
- Forward the mail. USPS requires you to go to a Post Office in person with "documented proof that you are the appointed executor or administrator." A death certificate alone is not enough (USPS, checked 2026-09-17).
- Open a bank account in the estate's name. To do that you need an Employer Identification Number (EIN) for the estate from the IRS, which is free and can be requested online (IRS, Deceased person, checked 2026-09-17).
- File IRS Form 56 to tell the IRS you are the fiduciary. The instructions say to file one Form 56 for the person and a separate one for the estate (IRS, Instructions for Form 56, checked 2026-09-17).
First 90 days
This is the inventory and notification phase.
- Build a written inventory of everything the person owned and owed: real estate, bank and brokerage accounts, retirement accounts, life insurance, vehicles, business interests, valuables, digital assets, and all debts. Most states require an inventory to be filed with the court.
- Sort assets into probate and non-probate. Joint accounts, accounts with a named beneficiary (retirement plans, life insurance, transfer-on-death accounts) and assets in a living trust usually pass outside probate and are not yours to distribute (Nolo, Probate Shortcuts, checked 2026-09-17).
- Notify beneficiaries and heirs as your state requires. Many courts require formal written notice.
- Publish and send notice to creditors. State law sets the claim window. Nolo's state guides show ranges from about three months to as long as twelve months depending on the state and how notice was given (Nolo, checked 2026-09-17).
- Report the death to one credit bureau. Equifax says that when one bureau adds a deceased notice "it will notify the other two," and that only the spouse or a legally authorized representative can request it (Equifax, checked 2026-09-17).
- Keep paying the bills that protect assets: mortgage, insurance, utilities, property taxes. Nolo lists these as core executor duties (Nolo, checked 2026-09-17).
- Apply for benefits that go to the estate or family: the Social Security lump-sum death payment, pensions, life insurance, and VA burial benefits for a veteran.
- Get date-of-death values for real estate and investments. The tax basis of inherited property is generally its fair market value on the date of death (IRS, Publication 559, checked 2026-09-17).
The first year and closing the estate
- File the person's final Form 1040. It is due on the normal date, generally April 15 of the following year. On a paper return, the IRS says to write "deceased," the person's name and the date of death across the top (IRS, checked 2026-09-17). If you are not court-appointed and a refund is due, attach Form 1310.
- File Form 1041 for the estate if the estate had $600 or more of gross income, for example interest, dividends or rent collected after the death (IRS, checked 2026-09-17).
- Decide whether Form 706 is needed. For deaths in 2026 it is required only if the gross estate plus adjusted taxable gifts is above $15,000,000, and it is due 9 months after the death. A surviving spouse may still want a Form 706 filed only to elect "portability" of the unused exemption; the IRS allows that simplified late election up to the fifth anniversary of the death (IRS, Rev. Proc. 2022-32, checked 2026-09-17). Ask a CPA.
- Pay valid claims in the order your state requires. If the estate cannot cover everything, do not pay anyone until you understand the priority rules.
- Check whether the state has a Medicaid estate recovery claim. Medicaid.gov says states must seek recovery for certain long-term care costs paid for people age 55 or older, but not while there is a surviving spouse, a child under 21, or a blind or disabled child (Medicaid.gov, checked 2026-09-17).
- Retitle or sell real estate and vehicles, then distribute the remaining assets according to the will. Get signed receipts from each beneficiary.
- Prepare the final accounting, file it with the court, and ask for the estate to be closed. Keep every record for several years afterward.
Documents to gather
- Certified death certificates (10 or more)
- Original will, codicils and any trust documents
- Letters testamentary or letters of administration
- Social Security number, birth certificate, marriage certificate, divorce decrees
- Deeds, vehicle titles, mortgage statements
- Bank, brokerage and retirement account statements
- Life insurance policies and pension paperwork
- The last three years of tax returns
- Recent bills, loan statements and credit card statements
- Business ownership papers, if any
- Military discharge papers (DD-214) if the person served
- A list of online accounts and where the passwords are kept (not the passwords themselves)
This is the kind of information a family guide, such as the one Omliva helps families build, keeps in one place. Families who have one typically finish the inventory in days instead of months.
Who to notify
| Who | What to tell them or ask for | Notes |
|---|---|---|
| Social Security Administration | Report the death; ask about survivor and lump-sum benefits | Funeral director usually reports; SSA takes reports only by phone or in person, 1-800-772-1213 (USA.gov, checked 2026-09-17) |
| Employer or former employer | Final pay, unused leave, group life insurance, 401(k) | Ask HR for the plan administrator's contact |
| Pension plan or PBGC | Report the death; ask about survivor benefits | PBGC handles federally insured plans it has taken over, 1-800-400-7242 (PBGC, checked 2026-09-17) |
| Banks and brokerages | Freeze accounts, get date-of-death balances, open estate account | They will ask for letters and a death certificate |
| Life insurers | File claims; use the free NAIC Policy Locator for unknown policies | Insurers report matches directly to the requester (NAIC, checked 2026-09-17) |
| Credit bureaus | Add a deceased notice | Notify one; Equifax states it notifies the other two (Equifax, checked 2026-09-17) |
| DMV | Cancel license or ID; transfer vehicle titles | Rules vary by state (USA.gov, checked 2026-09-17) |
| USPS | Forward mail to the executor | In person, with proof of appointment (USPS, checked 2026-09-17) |
| IRS | Form 56, estate EIN, final 1040, Form 1041 | See the first-year section |
| VA (if a veteran) | Burial allowance, flag, headstone, survivor benefits | Non-service-connected burial allowance claims must be filed within 2 years of burial (VA, checked 2026-09-17) |
| Election office, passport office, state benefits | Cancel voter registration, passport, SNAP or Medicaid | Listed by USA.gov (checked 2026-09-17) |
Common mistakes
- Acting before appointment. Selling a car or moving money on the strength of a will alone can be undone and can make you personally liable.
- Paying debts out of your own money. Neither the FTC nor the CFPB expects an executor to do that; collectors may not imply otherwise (FTC, CFPB, checked 2026-09-17).
- Distributing too early. If you hand out money before the creditor window closes and a valid claim arrives, beneficiaries may have to give it back, or you may have to cover it.
- Mixing estate and personal money. Always run everything through the estate account.
- Ignoring non-probate assets. You still need to know about them for the tax returns and for a fair picture of the estate.
- Missing tax deadlines. The final 1040, Form 1041 and, rarely, Form 706 each have their own due date.
- Poor records. Nolo notes that an executor can be held responsible for losses caused by carelessness (Nolo, checked 2026-09-17). Keep a log of every dollar in and out.
When to get professional help
Many simple estates can be handled without a lawyer, especially where the state offers small-estate procedures. Bring in a probate attorney when the will is contested or missing, when there is real estate in more than one state, when the estate may be insolvent, when a business is involved, or when the family is in conflict. Bring in a CPA when the estate earns income, when the person owned a business or rental property, when the gross estate is anywhere near the federal threshold, or when a surviving spouse may benefit from a portability election. Attorney and CPA fees are normally paid by the estate, not by you.
Printable executor checklist
Frequently asked questions
What does an executor have to do first?
Take care of the funeral and the death certificates, secure the property, find the will, and then ask the probate court to appoint you. Nothing financial should happen until the court issues your letters. That first appointment step is what turns a nominated executor into a real one.
How long does an executor have to settle an estate?
There is no single federal deadline. Most estates take somewhere between several months and more than a year, driven mainly by the creditor claim window, the tax filings and how quickly property can be sold. State courts often set reporting deadlines, so check your state's probate self-help pages.
Can an executor be paid?
Usually yes. Nolo explains that executors are generally entitled to compensation under the will or state law, and that the fee is taxable income, so an executor who is also the main heir often waives it (Nolo, checked 2026-09-17).
Is the executor responsible for the deceased person's debts?
No. Debts are paid from the estate. The CFPB says that being the executor "does not make you responsible for paying the debt with your own money" (CFPB, checked 2026-09-17). Exceptions are co-signed loans, joint accounts and some community property rules.
Do I need a lawyer to be an executor?
Not always. Nolo notes you do not need a law degree, only honesty, care and patience (Nolo, checked 2026-09-17). Hire one for disputes, insolvency, out-of-state property, a business, or whenever the court paperwork is beyond what you can manage.
What is the difference between an executor and a power of attorney?
A power of attorney works only while the person is alive and ends at death. An executor's authority starts only after death, once the court appoints them. One person can hold both roles, but never at the same time.
What taxes does an executor have to file?
The person's final Form 1040, an estate income tax return (Form 1041) if the estate has $600 or more of gross income, and a federal estate tax return (Form 706) only if the estate is above the filing threshold, which is $15,000,000 for 2026 deaths. Some states have their own estate or inheritance taxes.
Sources
- Internal Revenue Service, Instructions for Form 56, https://www.irs.gov/instructions/i56, checked 2026-09-17
- Internal Revenue Service, Filing a final federal tax return for someone who has died, https://www.irs.gov/newsroom/filing-a-final-federal-tax-return-for-someone-who-has-died, checked 2026-09-17
- Internal Revenue Service, Deceased person, https://www.irs.gov/individuals/deceased-person, checked 2026-09-17
- Internal Revenue Service, Instructions for Form 1041, https://www.irs.gov/instructions/i1041, checked 2026-09-17
- Internal Revenue Service, Estate tax, https://www.irs.gov/businesses/small-businesses-self-employed/estate-tax, checked 2026-09-17
- Internal Revenue Service, Instructions for Form 706, https://www.irs.gov/instructions/i706, checked 2026-09-17
- Internal Revenue Service, Revenue Procedure 2022-32, https://www.irs.gov/pub/irs-drop/rp-22-32.pdf, checked 2026-09-17
- Internal Revenue Service, Publication 559, Survivors, Executors, and Administrators, https://www.irs.gov/publications/p559, checked 2026-09-17
- Consumer Financial Protection Bureau, Help for Agents Under a Power of Attorney (Managing Someone Else's Money), https://files.consumerfinance.gov/f/documents/cfpb_msem_national_agents_guide.pdf, checked 2026-09-17
- Consumer Financial Protection Bureau, Does a person's debt go away when they die?, https://www.consumerfinance.gov/ask-cfpb/does-a-persons-debt-go-away-when-they-die-en-1463/, checked 2026-09-17
- Consumer Financial Protection Bureau, Am I responsible for my spouse's debts after they die?, https://www.consumerfinance.gov/ask-cfpb/am-i-responsible-for-my-spouses-debts-after-they-die-en-1467/, checked 2026-09-17
- Federal Trade Commission, Dealing with a deceased relative's debt, https://consumer.ftc.gov/consumer-alerts/2020/06/dealing-deceased-relatives-debt, checked 2026-09-17
- USA.gov, Agencies to notify when someone dies, https://www.usa.gov/report-a-death, checked 2026-09-17
- USA.gov, Report the death of a Social Security or Medicare beneficiary, https://www.usa.gov/social-security-report-a-death, checked 2026-09-17
- United States Postal Service, How to Stop or Forward Mail for the Deceased, https://www.usps.com/manage/mail-for-deceased.htm, checked 2026-09-17
- Equifax, Contacting Credit Bureaus After Relative's Death, https://www.equifax.com/personal/help/article-list/-/h/a/relative-death-contact-credit-bureaus/, checked 2026-09-17
- National Association of Insurance Commissioners, Life Insurance Policy Locator, https://content.naic.org/article/naic-life-insurance-policy-locator-tool-helps-match-consumers-more-16-billion-lost-and-unclaimed, checked 2026-09-17
- Pension Benefit Guaranty Corporation, Report a death, https://www.pbgc.gov/workers-retirees/manage/report-death, checked 2026-09-17
- U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs, Veterans burial allowance, https://www.va.gov/burials-memorials/veterans-burial-allowance/, checked 2026-09-17
- Medicaid.gov, Estate Recovery, https://www.medicaid.gov/medicaid/eligibility-policy/estate-recovery, checked 2026-09-17
- National Institute on Aging, What To Do After Someone Dies, https://www.nia.nih.gov/health/grief-and-mourning/what-do-after-someone-dies, checked 2026-09-17
- AARP, Here's Everything You Need to Do When a Loved One Dies, https://www.aarp.org/family-relationships/when-loved-one-dies-checklist/, checked 2026-09-17
- Nolo, What Does an Executor of a Will Do?, https://www.nolo.com/legal-encyclopedia/what-does-executor-do-30236.html, checked 2026-09-17
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- Nolo, Probate Shortcuts for Small Estates, https://www.nolo.com/legal-encyclopedia/probate-shortcuts-small-estates-29629.html, checked 2026-09-17
- Nolo, Should You Accept the Job of Executor to Settle an Estate?, https://www.nolo.com/legal-encyclopedia/accept-job-as-executor-estate-32439.html, checked 2026-09-17
- Nolo, How Probate Works for Executors in UPC and Non-UPC States, https://www.nolo.com/legal-encyclopedia/how-probate-process-works-information-32438.html, checked 2026-09-17